When I think about the action: to understand, it makes me realize that most of times it´s really impossible to do it! Because how to understand why people kill each other in so many wars? How the holocast happened? Why some people use so many drugs killing themselfs? How can parents or any adult rape their children? Why we say we love someone and then dont care about the person? Why most (and I really mean 99%) of the marriages or boyfriend and girlfriend relationships can not be like the ones I dream of or I read on the fairytales? Why people lie? Why people still dont care about the problems that the Earth is having and keep wasting water, energy etc? Why so many people die of hunger in Africa while there are so many wast of food that just go to the garbage in other countries? Why Why Why?????
There is no good answer for these and a lot of other questions... but as I believe, when you dont understand something and it would be hard to do it, just be the change, just do the way you think it should be done... might be dificult but at least YOU will be able to understand yourself! Cause even worse than not understanding people around you or around the world... is NOT to understand yourself!
That's all...